bang bang, my baby shot me down

have you ever heard that forgiveness is a virtue of the weak?
or maybe you heard that it is an ornament of the strong?


I have often wondered why when I was younger, I always had my older relatives telling me that women were so much smarter... 'don't ever get married Michelle' - i cannot even count the amount of times I heard that. They were so against the institution of marriage ... long before I even considered it. This whole situation has really gotten me thinking lately - are woman smarter than men?
clearly the answer is no... but do we think smarter... i think the answer is yes.
what is cheating?
to a man, i think he considers it straight up fucking. His girlfriend can be emotionally unfaithful, but nothing hits home like her fucking homeboy.
to a woman? sex is sex. I think the emotional straying is the hardest part to get over.
Recently I was really close to a situation where the husband had been cheating on his wife for 4 years.... and you know what .... she tried to get over it .... and it wasn't the sex ... it was the fact he was in a relationship with the woman.
So then blog readers whats worse.... the sex or the pillow talk?

fin